Man listen,

Sometimes we stress ourselves out because we really want things to work a certain way.

Little do we know God has something BIGGER and BETTER for us.

We just got to be patient, and our blessings will come.

Sometimes we wonder why something did not work out.

Until you look at things in retrospect, and see that God was really looking out for you.

You don’t need that person in your life because they are only hindering your growth.

Sometimes we have to cut that dead weight, and realize that if that person isn’t putting in effort to better themselves, its time to hit the road… Jack!

We always want things our way or the high way, instead of letting God handle it.

In reality we should just be focusing on bettering ourselves as individuals.

There is no growth in codependency.

There is no growth in gossiping, or nagging.

Growth comes when you look within, and do what makes YOU happy. Not what makes everyone else happy.

We get so caught up on what people may think about us, not realizing we are stopping our growth for other people.

YOU CONTROL YOUR LIFE. You are the decision maker every single day.

Often times, we give our entire lives to other people. People who don’t even really care about your well being, or your growth.

There have been times when I question why somethings didn’t work. Then I sit and think “Damn this person is still doing the same thing they were doing last year, or the year before, no wonder God took them out of my life.”.

Everything happens for a reason.

Just wanted to let you all know, stop giving your life to other people.

Stop living your life for other people.

Stop wondering what are these people going to think if I decide to jump, and do something out of the ordinary.

A lot people won’t understand your dreams and aspirations, and that’s okay, you shouldn’t want them to.

Sometimes they aren’t even aware of their own dreams and aspirations.

Xoxo,

Finding Vangie